So, Dave had surgery on Thursday. And it went really really really well. During the pre-op chat we were told that this could be long one, and if it was going to run longer than 3 hours he would get word to me so I wasn’t concerned. The risks were significant: perforated rectum, bleeding, even removal of the rectum if it looked worse than originally thought.
So I was surprised to see him saunter out the waiting area just short of 2 hours later. Surgery had only taken about 1.5 hours and went “better than I dared to hope” (Dr’s words). He believes that the entire tumor was removed. This was not expected. It has changed the outlook dramatically, we are now in a situation where further surgery is a possibility, and NOT a probability. This is wonderful wonderful wonderful news.
The tumor was “massive”, but now it is gone. Sent off for more testing. We will get the pathology reports next week.
Dave is still out of it. He is home now and resting. Worn out, physically and emotionally. It is hard to see him like this, flat out and pale, kind of gray-ish skin tone.
He gets to take it easy for the next couple of weeks and when he comes out of the pain med induced stupor, that is going to drive him nuts. Don’t stop praying for him just yet.
And speaking of prayer:
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU ALL
for all the emails and phone calls and cards.
and the prayers. God heard those, and answered, in a big way. And we are so thankful.
We are all tired, the first week of school wore out the boys, Sunny has worn out Auntie Megan, life has worn out me.
I want to write about all the little things that have happened over the last 48 hours. But I can’t right now. Kids want to watch a movie, and they have had a very distracted mama as of late. It’s time to sit and cuddle with them.